Let’s be honest: we’re all fundamentally nosy. And if we see someone with something we want, we need to know how they got it.
So why do I remain surprised that people want to know how I got to where I am today? I say this without arrogance. I’m not the highest earning copywriter. I don’t have the most awards (best new editor way back when is as good as it gets). I don’t work for Apple, or Innocent, or Nike.
But I make a good living from a job I love. I’m consistently busy. I have a waiting list (usually a pretty healthy one).
I don’t advertise. My clients find me, rather than the other way around. What’s more, I get to choose whether I want to work with them or not.
It’s all pretty damn good.
So, given the number of emails and conversations I’ve had asking for tips, I thought I’d share a few things that might surprise you.
“You’ve been freelance for 19 years? How have you done it? What’s your secret?!”
You want secrets? Oh… I’ve got secrets.
I’m not talking the kind of secrets you’ll find if you type ‘great business advice’ into Google. Surround yourself with good people. Be tenacious. Work hard. Oh no. I’m talking about the stuff inside my head. The personal stuff, that hopefully you’ll read and identify with, rather than slowly backing away from the crazy word girl in the corner.
I still suffer from imposter syndrome
Chances are, you do too. Everyone gets self-doubt from time to time.
Sometimes it’s crippling. I feel like I’ve been winging it – that one day someone will call me out as a fraud. In my head, it’s usually Jafar, from the Disney movie Aladdin.
And it’ll go a little something like this:
“You? YOU? You think you can make a success as a writer? WHO ARE YOU KIDDING?”
(Cue evil Disney-villain-style laughter.)
Most of the time I know I’ve got this. Jeez, I have 90-odd testimonials on LinkedIn from people who love working with me, because I increase their sales, bring in more customers, or just make their job easier.
Yet still, the doubt creeps in occasionally. It’s all part of the process.
The idea of networking used to bring me out in a rash
Yeah, okay… not an *actual* rash, but seriously, I can’t think of anything I dreaded more. So much so, that for the first 14 years as a freelance copywriter I did no networking whatsoever.
Having to sell myself to complete strangers? No way José. Standing in front of a room full of people, talking about my business until the two-minute timer busted me for rambling?
Or worse – drying up. Can you imagine the sniggers? “She’s a copywriter and she ran out of words!” It’s happened. Not often, but enough to stop me getting blasé.
And that’s a good thing, right?
When I did decide to start networking I realised it’s a case of finding the right groups to fit both your business and your personality. I prefer the more informal groups that don’t involve pressure to refer or the dreaded elevator pitch.
Now I network as much for the social aspect (working for yourself can be isolating as hell) and the food (shh – don’t tell) as anything else. And it’s more about meeting like-minded people than indulging pushy sales pitches.
I hate public speaking
If you follow me on social media you may remember this time last year I took a giant freakin’ leap outside my comfort zone. Yes, I stood up – okay, there was a bar stool involved, but you get the picture – in front of 80 local business owners and talked about copywriting.
And do you know what? I bloody loved it.
At the time… yeah, it was pretty good.
Immediately after – oh my days was I buzzing. I was in my element, in fact.
So perhaps secret number three should be that I hate the idea of public speaking, but in reality, it gives me an enormous energy boost and I should probably do it more often.
I can talk for England
When I write copy for my clients it’s clear and concise. I write tight, using the minimum of words. There’s no waste. No sagging at the edges. No siree.
When I talk… oh man. Different story.
If you’ve met me, or we’ve spoken on the phone, you’ll know.
I talk lots. And I talk fast.
I blame my brain. It gets excited. It fires ideas at tangents and my mouth can’t keep up. In fairness, it shouldn’t even try. In reality, it tries. Boy does it try.
So, meetings with me can be high energy affairs. Particularly if we’re talking about a subject that really interests me. (You’d like help marketing your chocolate business, you say?)
I struggle with distractions
We all do it. Sometimes it’s easier to put things off than bite the bullet and get started. In my case, if I need to work on something for my own business, rather than for a client, I’ll often make excuses. Distractions glint at me like glitter in the tiles at the airport duty-free shop.
- “Ooh look! The trailer for the new Marvel movie is out!”
- “I’ll just see if those pics are on Facebook yet…”
- “I should probably hang the washing.”
- “Where shall we go on holiday this year?”
Displacement activity. Avoid it at all costs. (Pun very definitely intended.)
Which neatly leads on to…
I need accountability
In 19 years as a freelance copywriter, I’ve never missed a deadline. When it comes to client work, I’m as focused as a sniper with a 50-yard target.
When it comes to working on my own business, I need serious accountability. It took me two years from deciding I wanted to start a monthly newsletter to sending out the first issue. Two years!
Distractions aside, if I’ve told someone I’m going to do something, you bet your life I’m gonna do it. It’s a matter of pride.
Having close relationships with other freelancers helps me. But choose wisely. Pick the ones who lift your energy with their positivity and ideas, not the energy vampires who flatten you with their gripes about how hard it is to be your own boss. No one needs that.
The energy boost I get from an hour of shared inspiration and support makes me more positive, more productive, and more profitable.
I have a fundamental inability to ask for help
I’m not sure being a perfectionist control freak is essential when it comes to making a success of your freelance career, but giddy me does it keep you on your toes.
I’m my own biggest critic, my own worst enemy, yada yada. I should cut myself some slack, occasionally, but I’m too busy beating myself up about my imperfections.
I go to an event and come away fired up and inspired by new ideas, then get frustrated and feisty that I can’t do everything at once, or that things take longer than expected.
They say delegation is the key to running a successful business. That’s not easy when you’re standing where I’m standing, but I’m getting better. I now have a virtual assistant, an IT support company, and an accountant (my ex-husband, but that’s a story for another day).
My secret’s safe… right?
So, there we have it. A cheeky peek into some of the guilty secrets of a freelance copywriter. If this post has gone any way to make you feel more normal, I’d love to know. If you’re pulling a face and judging me for my weirdness, do me a favour… keep it to yourself.
First published on www.sarahtownsendeditorial.co.uk